I spotted the sign and thought, why not?
An estate sale was in progress and
since I found a parking spot on the street, I decided to see what treasures the
house held.
As I entered, the women conducting
the sale greeted me with a smile and told me, “There’s something in every
room.”
The kitchen cupboards held casserole
dishes and stemware. Silver pieces covered the dining room table. The pantry
shelves contained rows of cookbooks. All were reminders of days gone by,
reflections of a household no longer needed.
Did the owners move to a senior
living residence? Did they expect to leave their belongings
behind? Did they think they would stay in this home until their last breath?
The upstairs closet contained only
women’s clothing. Had she passed? Or had he died years ago, and she passed? Or
were these clothes the woman knew she’d never wear again in her new residence?
The wardrobe boasted attractive and stylish clothing of the past; classy and classic. I speculated
she used her silver pieces and dressed for fancy dinner parties. I tried to
imagine life once in the home. Now strangers passed through the house,
evaluating, considering, picking up treasures, or passing by. Are the children
disposing of the property and contents? I had questions, but no answers.
My curiosity kept me moving through
the large house. When I entered another bedroom, I paused. Two wedding gowns were
hanging on curtain rods on widows. Large gold gift boxes that once held the
gowns, rested nearby on the floor. I read the label: “Preserved for a Lifetime of Loveliness”.
Did the gowns belong to daughters? Why didn’t they want them? And…have the gowns have lasted
longer than the marriages? Was the marriage not preserved for a lifetime? Is
that what the brides expected?
Expectations: a strong belief
that something will happen or be the case in the future.
We all have expectations. Some are more
dramatic than others. They may be dreams, hopes, or common-sense practical
anticipation. Some expectations are realized and bring joy and success; other expectations
fail and yield disappointments. Some are minor, some serious.
Hope deferred makes
the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.
(Proverbs 13:12 NLT)
Rain keeps us from enjoying a day
at the beach.
Writers hope to have an article or
book published but they are rejected by editors.
A young woman thinks her boyfriend
will propose but he has cold feet and they break-up.
My cheesecake flops when I take it
from the oven.
A teen goes out for a sports team
and doesn’t make the cut.
A husband dies and retirement
dreams are extinguished.
My connecting flight is delayed and
I miss most of a reunion.
The deal on a dream house falls
through.
A friendship disintegrates.
A diagnosis changes the trajectory
of life.
The marriage isn’t preserved for a
lifetime.
Expectations come in the form of
time, relationships, dreams, emotions, and success.
How do we manage unrealized
expectations? What keeps us moving forward in disappointments?
Can you offer words of wisdom and
encouragement from your experiences? Join the conversation to guide us. Don’t we want to be preserved for a lifetime of loveliness?
I love the verse you gave (Proverbs 13:12). It reminds me that if we focus on those dreams deferred, our heart will be sick. But if we focus on the Tree of Life, Jesus--if He BECOMES our dream--our dreams will be fulfilled every time.
ReplyDeleteHeather Bock
www.glimpsesofjesus.com
Enjoyed your description of the house and items left behind, but it also made me sad. When I ride by deserted houses, even those falling down, I ask myself, "Did those living here have joy?" I wish I could join in the conversation with pearls of wisdom and encouragement, but I don't have much to offer beyond the encouragement of walking with Jesus on our journey through life. He'd guide us up the mountain and support us in the valleys (and help us adjust our expectations as needed).
ReplyDeleteI agree Katherine. I try to imagine who lived there and what their lives were like. I have watched aging parents "downsize" and leave their homes--not what they expected. But we rest in knowing Jesus never leaves us or forsakes us--in the sunshine and in the storm.That is an expectation that is always realized. Thank you for sharing.
DeleteHeather, Yes! Just this morning, in my quiet time I was reminded of God's attributes and looking at my circumstances from His perspective.Thanks for commenting.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful writing! Aw, expectations. There are some things that I'm I've been waiting on for years. But I take peace in the many ways the Lord has answered me in my life. I trust that He knows best. Is this easy? Not always, but this is why I keep a journal of the Lord's blessings.
ReplyDeleteYes, I keep a journal too and I also date my Bible. It's amazing how years later, I'll turn to a passage and see a date and a name or words that remind me of God's work. Thanks, Beckie for your comments. I share a waiting room with you too.
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